This first appeared on May 27, 2008. Unfortunately even today, there are people looking to scam those who can least afford it. If you’re facing foreclosure or know someone who is, this is an important read.
Archive for the ‘Foreclosures and Real Estate’ Category
Redux: Things Will Get Worse Before They Get Better
Monday, March 1st, 2010
I first posted this on February 18, 2008 – more than two years ago… before the election. As I was reading through it, it occurred to me… I wasn’t far off base. Some of the links no longer lead to the page intended, but it’s worth a second look – and perhaps a second thought.
Talking to the Kids: Dealing with Failure
Wednesday, February 24th, 2010
As you can see, in the title I use the “F” word. Now, I want to point out that by using the “F” word, I’m not saying that you – as a parent deep in debt – are a failure. Yet talking to your kids might raise some concerns that you have about how they might perceive you – and the choices you have made. And that’s the tough road I’m going to talk about today. (more…)
Kids Aren’t Stupid (Really)
Tuesday, February 23rd, 2010
That’s a heck of a title, eh? It does however, encapsulate the theme of today’s thoughts on talking to kids about the debt the family finds itself in. Just because you’re not talking about the debt issues you as a parent are struggling with does not mean that the kids don’t know – or sense something is terribly wrong. (more…)
Talking to your Kids
Monday, February 22nd, 2010
Recently, when I was talking to a client she expressed her concerns about her kids finding out how bad the household finances are. It’s not the first time I’ve heard clients express those concerns to me. And when parents are facing some real tough decisions, there are no easy answers I can provide. Yet when it comes to having to talk to kids about the debt problems that affect the household, isn’t it important to talk to them? In this series, I’ll be sharing much of my own observations in speaking with clients, in speaking with colleagues, and in some cases, in speaking with and learning from kids. (more…)
Loan Modification Scams
Friday, February 19th, 2010
As more and more people try anything to avoid losing their homes, more and more people are getting scammed.
Here are two links with important information for homeowners contemplating modifications:
This from The Christian Science Monitor:
TransUnion, a credit reporting company, released its own numbers on Tuesday. At the end of the fourth quarter last year, it said, 6.89 percent of all US mortgage payments were at least 60 days past due. That was an all-time high.
Enter unscrupulous loan-modification companies. They advertise on late night-television or radio shows and sound as if they are linked to the Obama program.
“Many of them have the word ‘hope’ in their phone number,” says Jonathan Mintz, commissioner of the Consumer Affairs Department in New York. “But it’s a false hope.”
And here’s a link mentioned in the same article that describes, among other things, 6 Facts You Should Know About Loan Modification Scams.
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When Should You Start Thinking About Doing a Short Sale?
Tuesday, February 9th, 2010
A homeowner decides that they want to sell their property – and get as much as they can from the sale even though it won’t pay the mortgage – by a short sale. But if the home is already in the foreclosure process, is it already too late to start thinking about that. It might be. Today, I’ll tackle the timing of the short sale decision, and why it something that if you’re going to consider it, you need to start thinking about it before you start missing those mortgage payments.
Short Sales & Foreclosure: Perception & Reality
Monday, February 8th, 2010
Many people struggling to pay the mortgages are motivated to consider a short sale. I am often told that it is considered because of their concern that if a short sale is not done, and the property is allowed to foreclosure, they will never be able to own a home again. Today, I want to tackle the perception of that…and present a bit of reality, from my point of view.
The Short Sale Option
Sunday, February 7th, 2010
A short sale is when a homeowner sells property, but for less than the amount due on the outstanding mortgage. The lender agrees to release/discharge the mortgage on the property to allow the property to change hands to a new owner. Now, there seems to be a belief out there that short-selling a property is better than allowing it to slip into foreclosure. I’m not going to agree or disagree on this – because what’s good for some people, is just not good for others. But since there is a resurgence of media reports that former homeowners are “surprised” to learn they are still responsible for their debts to the bank even after a foreclosure, I thought I would revisit the subject and list out some pros and cons as well as perceptions and realities. (more…)
Those People
I was recently chatting with an old friend who was sharing with me her recent trials and tribulations. She is on unemployment – has been for a while - and trying to sell her house. Her house is not priced to sell – but priced in line with what other houses in her neighborhood are going for… and are also not selling. She has also made some regrettable financial and life decisions that have lead her to the place she now finds herself in. It’s not a judgment – it’s more of an observation. Some of what she’s experiencing was avoidable. Some of it – like the unemployment, wasn’t. She asked me for my advice.
As I started offering some suggestions (among them, dropping the price on the house), I could tell she was getting upset. She then took a deep breath and said “you know, I’m not like those people you represent. Those people in bankruptcy.”
There was this period of awkward silence – I don’t think it was particularly long – but it was long enough for me to think something more serious than “really, Blanche. Really?” but not as dramatic as “oh. my. gawd!”‘
“Those people,” I said – and I could feel my eyes widening.
Being good friends, we could tell that we both hit a nerve in each other and we silently retreated to our respective corners. I did not have it in me to say what I wanted to say then.
I do now.
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